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The One Night Boyfriend 0

Ever have a boyfriend? For the night. As enjoyable as it is to snuggle up in bed/futon/couch with your honey watching romantic comedies, this isn’t that kind of boyfriend.  I’m talking about the one-night-boyfriend. Yes, it’s different than the one night stand. Sure, relationships of all types pop up all year round, but there’s undeniably something [...]

My Best Friend’s A Player…Yours Should Be Too 4

Ladies of New York City, I’m talking to you…so listen up. A couple of weekends ago, I went to brunch with one of my oldest and best guy friends. He’s my best friend from when we were young. Like we go wayyyy baaaack. Anyway, he’s the heterosexual, interested-in-ladies type. And, I should mention, our friendship is COMPLETELY platonic. No [...]

Point First… Click Later 2

You’re bored at work. You’re sitting in front of the computer and you have a first date in the next few days. Should you Google? Heck, it’ll only take a minute. It’s really easy. So you do it. You google your would-be sweetheart. Then comes the hard part. You have to pretend you didn’t. Here’s [...]

Don’t Pretendo: You’re Not Into Him, So Can You Set Him Up With Your Friend? 1

I’m not exactly sure how many dedicated hours I’ve devoted to playing the ultimate puzzle game Tetris. Whether it was on the original Nintendo version or one of the original Game Boys, it was a significant and memorable amount of time. And if you’re anything like me, you probably played enough to start seeing the [...]

Older, Wiser And Unemployed 4

Today, I have reached a significant milestone: My twenty-fifth birthday.  I have been alive for a full quarter-century.  I am officially in my mid-twenties. I am five years away from being thirty. At twenty-five, most of us are busy fostering and developing our careers. This is especially true in New York City. And New York City [...]

Tall, Dark, Handsome… and Uptown? 6

He was tall, dark and handsome. Not to mention Jewish. I was really rather fond of this guy.Truth be told, I kind of liked him.  But then he mentioned that he lives on the Upper East Side. Immediately, the flags shot up – red, purple, blue, orange. The only time I go to the Upper East [...]

Breaking Down The Break Up: How To End It With Someone You’re Not (Really) Dating 4

When I like you it’s pretty freakin obvious. I call you. I email you. I bbm you. I talk to you all day at work on gchat (don’t tell my boss). I send you funny emails that I think you might like. I let you know what I’m up to. I want to know what [...]

The Perfect Match: But Where’s The Spark? 11

We’ve all dated our share of jerks. But what about when you meet someone seemingly perfect? He’s not just your average amount of smart; he’s in a league with MC squared himself. He’s not just sort of good looking. In fact, every time you introduce him to someone or flash his Facebook profile picture, an [...]

Kissing And Telling: The Good, The Bad, And The Sloppy 0

Making out. Sucking face. Tonsil hockey. Lip locking. Swapping spit. Smooching. Call it what you will. I’ve had my share of kisses over the years. Some, I admit, were horrendous, and included things like headgear, onion breath, chapped lips and excessive saliva and drool. Others, however, have been life changing, and have taken my breath [...]