Comments on: On Dating and Communication http://blog.nycandlove.com/2010/05/21/on-dating-and-communication/ online dating exclusively for New York City Tue, 14 Jun 2011 17:32:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: Dating and Communication Part II: The Double Edged Sword | nycandlove blog http://blog.nycandlove.com/2010/05/21/on-dating-and-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-754 Dating and Communication Part II: The Double Edged Sword | nycandlove blog Thu, 27 May 2010 10:42:50 +0000 http://blog.nycandlove.com/?p=341#comment-754 [...] you read On Dating and Communication, then you know how I feel about technology’s role in dating. What I didn’t really get into is [...] [...] you read On Dating and Communication, then you know how I feel about technology’s role in dating. What I didn’t really get into is [...]

]]> By: Brownman http://blog.nycandlove.com/2010/05/21/on-dating-and-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-746 Brownman Wed, 26 May 2010 17:41:06 +0000 http://blog.nycandlove.com/?p=341#comment-746 Well then...consider me standing corrected. At least until we learn more about this. Well then…consider me standing corrected. At least until we learn more about this.

]]> By: d http://blog.nycandlove.com/2010/05/21/on-dating-and-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-733 d Tue, 25 May 2010 01:44:20 +0000 http://blog.nycandlove.com/?p=341#comment-733 Hi Brownman -- Thanks for your comment. There was actually more that he said that I didn't write on here (yet!), but I really think the crux was that he just felt in his gut we weren't right for each other. Which is fine! I actually agree, now that I am so over it :) Hi Brownman –

Thanks for your comment. There was actually more that he said that I didn’t write on here (yet!), but I really think the crux was that he just felt in his gut we weren’t right for each other. Which is fine! I actually agree, now that I am so over it :)

]]> By: Brownman http://blog.nycandlove.com/2010/05/21/on-dating-and-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-727 Brownman Mon, 24 May 2010 21:03:37 +0000 http://blog.nycandlove.com/?p=341#comment-727 I like you went in as yourself. What's the point of playing games and hiding things unless you're 15 years old? The mere fact that this dude had a change in behavior with the "communication" thing makes me feel that: a) He found out something about you (thru the grapevine/internet?) that he didn't like b) His boys have been analyzing the gchats and offered some bad advice/analysis c) There was a particular conversation you guys had that he looked too much into Oh well. Like Jay Z says, "On to the next one". I like you went in as yourself. What’s the point of playing games and hiding things unless you’re 15 years old? The mere fact that this dude had a change in behavior with the “communication” thing makes me feel that:

a) He found out something about you (thru the grapevine/internet?) that he didn’t like

b) His boys have been analyzing the gchats and offered some bad advice/analysis

c) There was a particular conversation you guys had that he looked too much into

Oh well. Like Jay Z says, “On to the next one”.

]]> By: Missy http://blog.nycandlove.com/2010/05/21/on-dating-and-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-720 Missy Mon, 24 May 2010 14:02:50 +0000 http://blog.nycandlove.com/?p=341#comment-720 Being yourself was not a mistake. There are plenty of men out there who are all about the constant communication. You are right, if he really was into the relationship, he would not have minded all the emailing and Gchatting. Being yourself was not a mistake. There are plenty of men out there who are all about the constant communication. You are right, if he really was into the relationship, he would not have minded all the emailing and Gchatting.

]]> By: S http://blog.nycandlove.com/2010/05/21/on-dating-and-communication/comment-page-1/#comment-709 S Fri, 21 May 2010 19:40:44 +0000 http://blog.nycandlove.com/?p=341#comment-709 I have made this same mistake... or is it a mistake? Good question. When things go TOO FAST TOO SOON there is a rush of emotion that is a lot of fun. I think it's important not to let that rush get out of hand. This way when things get "normal", which they will, it doesn't feel like the relationship is dead and boring. I'll also say that regardless or the over-analyzation of these emotions...it's probably true that if the person is right for you, nothing you do can be wrong. Be crazy, over communicate, don't think... if you're meant to be it'll happen. I have made this same mistake… or is it a mistake? Good question. When things go TOO FAST TOO SOON there is a rush of emotion that is a lot of fun. I think it’s important not to let that rush get out of hand. This way when things get “normal”, which they will, it doesn’t feel like the relationship is dead and boring.

I’ll also say that regardless or the over-analyzation of these emotions…it’s probably true that if the person is right for you, nothing you do can be wrong. Be crazy, over communicate, don’t think… if you’re meant to be it’ll happen.

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